at least the things i know
some help would be nice to add in all things
as soon as u finish the quest lit the beacon and start talking with alistar
and you open up the dialogue about duncan
say this(i only put down responses u can give after each inital text)
1. i understand he was like family to u
2. there's no need to apoligize(or no harm done alistar)
3. no , i understand completely
4. maybe i will go with you to bury duncan
this will net you with a +6 approval of alistar