[QUOTE=fable]Luis, I think it's part of developing one's personal integration that you're consciously aware of your subconscious triggers, and don't let them affect you.(....) The point was that she'd argued for a mechanistic approach in all situations. Had she said that it was modifiable by conscious intervention, she wouldn't have looked silly. Your mind/body interface is a powerful tool, if you know how to use it correctly.[/QUOTE]
Well, but you have to agree that you were expecting her to manipulate you in some manner, and that has not happened, for example, in a pub, or in somewhere you're not expecting to be manipulated. What I mean is that when you're, for example, walking on the street and you feel a good smell/ nice face/ nice legs your instinct will act and make you look, or desire. You have gone there expecting what she did, and you never agreed entirely with that.
What you are reporting sounds to me the same as those guys who make hipnotism on shows. They have to make the people agree with the "invasion", with the hipnose itself, or it wont work - so the woman should have told you exactly what she will do, and ask you if you agree with what whe would do. (you may notice: its a good pattern many experienced show people do when they call someone on the audience.)
Anyway, it must have been fun, I laughed a lot when I first read this

. She probabily looked at you and thougth "lets make him look silly" but every thing you wish (good or bad) returns to you, and it returned to her so quickly

Flesh to stone ain't permanent, it seems.