Girl Help !!!

Ideal Maxima · Post by **Ideal Maxima** » Sun Nov 07, 2004 3:36 pm

[QUOTE=Galuf the Dwarf]<snip>
Hey, wait a minute. I thought you said she had a boyfriend. Did she make him disappear or something?

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i also said it may mean best friend. Turns out it did mean best friend

her best friend said that just to annoy me (and her)

Macleod1701 · Post by **Macleod1701** » Mon Dec 13, 2004 9:11 am

Women are great! Especially naked! Hence why I'm self clasified as a serial cheater. Oh well 3 women on the go is better than none, damn confusing sometimes.

Ekental · Post by **Ekental** » Mon Dec 13, 2004 7:47 pm

Though I find it partially gratifying I am also suprised that you asked for "girl help" on a forum that does not seem as suited as others for such posting... maybe thats just me (and this thought might have been brought up before) but that strikes me as a bit different from the normal random topics that are posted here.... i.e. car crashes, opinion polls, government policies, and philosophy in general.

Speaking of which... I have no real clue what you mean by "love" and what is meant when you say you "might" be in love. Do you mind defining "love" since I think I might view it a bit differently than you?

Ideal Maxima · Post by **Ideal Maxima** » Mon Dec 13, 2004 8:04 pm

wow.. i havent seen this thread for a while... anyway, love is the affection i have with Jess

and the best part is she has the affection back for me. i brought this problem to the forums because i didnt know who to turn to, and you guys are pretty good problem solvers and good friends

dragon wench · Post by **dragon wench** » Mon Dec 13, 2004 10:07 pm

[QUOTE=Ekental]Though I find it partially gratifying I am also suprised that you asked for "girl help" on a forum that does not seem as suited as others for such posting... maybe thats just me (and this thought might have been brought up before) but that strikes me as a bit different from the normal random topics that are posted here.... i.e. car crashes, opinion polls, government policies, and philosophy in general.[/QUOTE]

Actually, you would be surprised at the number of threads that have been created on topics like this. I have seen quite a few in the nearly four years I have posted at Game Banshee.

A lot of people here seem to feel quite comfortable asking for advice on personal issues. I think it is because there are many different individuals here from varying age groups with different experiences and backgrounds, and they can all bring helpful perspectives to a situation. Also, because it is the internet, there is a certain level of anonymity.. nobody has to worry, usually, that asking for advice will lead to rumours in their home area. Further, while Game Banshee is ostensibly a gaming site, SYM itself is something of a community, which means that anything human is effectively a legitimate subject for discussion.

Locke Da'averan · Post by **Locke Da'averan** » Tue Dec 14, 2004 2:11 pm

Well i'm happy for MAXi

not meant to bring you down, but as great as love is, the shattering of one's heart will wipe it away.. i'm not all knowing/experienced but that's just how i see it..

never have her doubt your true feelings, don't over-express your love..
i know what happens when a girl wants you and you play neutral(since you try to figure out if you truly are in love with her), while having feelings for her.. things don't go the way you like it..

remember one thing: you can never fully regain trust.

Ekental · Post by **Ekental** » Tue Dec 14, 2004 5:50 pm

[QUOTE=dragon wench]Actually, you would be surprised at the number of threads that have been created on topics like this. I have seen quite a few in the nearly four years I have posted at Game Banshee.

A lot of people here seem to feel quite comfortable asking for advice on personal issues. I think it is because there are many different individuals here from varying age groups with different experiences and backgrounds, and they can all bring helpful perspectives to a situation. Also, because it is the internet, there is a certain level of anonymity.. nobody has to worry, usually, that asking for advice will lead to rumours in their home area. Further, while Game Banshee is ostensibly a gaming site, SYM itself is something of a community, which means that anything human is effectively a legitimate subject for discussion.[/QUOTE]

Touche then...
Excuse my relative greenness... I do not have the wisdom and experience you old timers do XD.

@Maxima... ok I get you. I had a totally different definition of love which is why I was confused at many of your posts.

CM · Post by CM » Tue Dec 14, 2004 7:01 pm

Lets I myself have asked for "love" advice here once or twice. Actually a great deal of people have asked for advice here. Just not about love, work related stuff, social stuff etc. Its always good to get an SYM point of view because:

A. They are older
B. Everybody here is just about as crazy as yourself so somehow one of them must have done something just as stupid like you are doing now and has the good and bad to tell you

C. Its always good to get a perspective from someone that is not involved.
D. Everybody here is of different minds so you get alot of diverse opinions and it helps alot.

Metalgear_X · Post by **Metalgear_X** » Wed Dec 15, 2004 7:55 pm

No such thing as love in this world..............It's called a tingling in the pants. The trick that always works is turning around and walking away. Go home smack the monkey and your in the clear. Won't need to worry about expensive dinners, annoying children and divorce settlements. The best thing you can do is be friends and maybe if your lucky have a one night stand.

No such thing as love in this horny world.

Aegis · Post by **Aegis** » Wed Dec 15, 2004 8:17 pm

[QUOTE=Metalgear_X]No such thing as love in this world..............It's called a tingling in the pants. The trick that always works is turning around and walking away. Go home smack the monkey and your in the clear. Won't need to worry about expensive dinners, annoying children and divorce settlements. The best thing you can do is be friends and maybe if your lucky have a one night stand.

No such thing as love in this horny world.[/QUOTE]
Dude... You need a woman (Or Fas, I heard he's experimental

) ... Then you'll find love

Also, when in doubt, the Great I Sage makes an appearance, and the wisdom of the cosmos becomes explained. But, only in times of great befuddlement and confusion.

VonDondu · Post by **VonDondu** » Thu Dec 16, 2004 9:29 am

[QUOTE=Aegis]Dude... You need a woman...[/QUOTE]
No, don't tell him to look for a woman; please tell him to stay away from women, if you care about women at all.

[QUOTE=Metalgear_X]The trick that always works is turning around and walking away. Go home smack the monkey and your in the clear. Won't need to worry about expensive dinners, annoying children and divorce settlements...[/QUOTE]
If the whole world took your advice, the human race would not last longer than a single generation.

But of course, you're missing the one place where you're most likely to find love: alone with yourself.

I have a feeling you really could use some more self-love.

Macleod1701 · Post by **Macleod1701** » Thu Dec 16, 2004 9:41 am

Mmmmm women, they have all the best bits that men don't have, (unless they're really fat MAN BOOBIES, or weird) and most women like the bits that men have, we're like lego.....we slot together (drums and cymbols patter quickly)

Aegis · Post by **Aegis** » Thu Dec 16, 2004 10:33 am

[QUOTE=VonDondu]No, don't tell him to look for a woman; please tell him to stay away from women, if you care about women at all.

[/QUOTE]
That's just my advice, guy to guy. Of course, I'd make sure there'd be enough time to properly warn all females I know

Metalgear_X · Post by **Metalgear_X** » Thu Dec 16, 2004 10:34 pm

Think what you will but love is nothing more then a feeling that can only be turned off with time..................why do you think couples who have been together for so long hate each other. It's either they don't have anywhere else to go, they dont have anyone else, or they're too afraid to be alone(many others but mostly it all leads to being alone). You may say no to any of these but deep down you know its true. You don't want to be 50 and alone by yourself so you search and search for a woman or man who you think or can make you happy for a long time

Until you get bored of that person and divorce them..........if you're still young. Once you get too old though you better have someone else on the sidelines or else you're stuck with the person you hate for the rest of your lives because the fear of being alone is something no one wants to go through.

The best thing you can do is just be with the person you really like as long as possible and hope you both don't get bored of each other.

If love is forever then why is the divorve rate in america 50%????? That's millions and millions of people saying i love you then divorcing the person they supposedly love in a year or so.

That means 50% of americans got bored or angry with the person they were suppose to stay with for the rest of their lives.

Like I said, think what you will but i think all you can do is be with someone or anyone you can tolerate for as long possible because no one wants to be alone

Also forget about all this marriage tradition crap it's a waste of time and money and 50% of america will pretty much lie at the altar.

Well i'm gonna shut up now cause i'm rambling up a storm. If someone replies though prepare for a another long essay. I've got plenty of time to waste.

Don't take anything I say seriously. It's just my opinion and i'm sorry if it sounds like i'm preaching. I don't mean to.

Magrus · Post by **Magrus** » Thu Dec 16, 2004 10:44 pm

Bitter man? I'm against marriage personally, as for the most part, its fallen apart from what it was traditionally meant to be. It's my opinion if you plan on spending your life with the person you love, so be it, do so. You shouldn't need a contract to say you will. Thats not to say there isn't anything wonderful about love though. I've been burned and honestly, it made me hate just about everyone female for quite some time simply because they reminded of me the person who hurt me, until a female friend of mine cheered me up and got me to forget all about that.

The problem isn't that all people choose the wrong person, or a person for the wrong reason. It's that people grow and change throughout life, and what may be good for you today, might not be good for you ten years from now. Not to say some people don't make horrible choices, but most do make the right choice for that particular time in their life.