What do you look for?

Astafas · Post by **Astafas** » Tue Aug 07, 2001 6:41 am

Originally posted by Xandax:
She's with Garcia! - why'd you think?

Man, what a fast runner!

Garcia · Post by **Garcia** » Tue Aug 07, 2001 6:52 am

@Xandax I am not sure you want to win am all

my experience tells me that one is more than enough sometimes

@Astafas it is a funny story. short: meet her on Kos on a holiday. she lives in Slovenia and are studing law. she now works in Spain and Marocco. I live in Denmark. spend most of my time in Sweeden, Norway and Germany. soon to start working on Gibralta (I'm gonna be an English man

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sometimes I don't know were I am

Xandax · Post by **Xandax** » Tue Aug 07, 2001 7:00 am

Originally posted by Astafas:
Man, what a fast runner!

Well sarcasm comes natural for me - just one of .... ehhh... my only talent

Astafas · Post by **Astafas** » Tue Aug 07, 2001 7:04 am

Originally posted by Xandax:
Well sarcasm comes natural for me - just one of .... ehhh... my only talent

Actually I meant that Garcia's girlfriend has to be a fast runner if she can be on the same place as him (as you suggested) and still be 3000-4000 km away. Still, it makes me glad you've already found your talent. I'm still looking.

Garcia · Post by **Garcia** » Tue Aug 07, 2001 7:05 am

Originally posted by Xandax:
Well sarcasm comes natural for me - just one of .... ehhh... my only talent

you forgot spaming

Xandax · Post by **Xandax** » Tue Aug 07, 2001 7:16 am

Originally posted by Astafas:
Actually I meant that Garcia's girlfriend has to be a fast runner if she can be on the same place as him (as you suggested) and still be 3000-4000 km away. Still, it makes me glad you've already found your talent. I'm still looking.

Oh that way around

Garcia · Post by **Garcia** » Tue Aug 07, 2001 7:22 am

rats I have to go home from work now not really a "productive day"

See you later

Xandax · Post by **Xandax** » Tue Aug 07, 2001 7:24 am

C you Garcia

Vivien · Post by **Vivien** » Tue Aug 07, 2001 7:30 am

Okay, so who was it that mentioned looking women up and down as if they are a piece of meat?!

I have one thing to say to that person.
YES WOMEN KNOW WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING AT. We can see your eyes go up and down. We see them pause at certain areas. We don’t ‘know’ what you’re thinking, but we can guess. We're thinking thoughts right back at you, usually violent thoughts, but not always.

Astafas · Post by **Astafas** » Tue Aug 07, 2001 7:47 am

Originally posted by Vivien:
Okay, so who was it that mentioned looking women up and down as if they are a piece of meat?!

I have one thing to say to that person.
YES WOMEN KNOW WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING AT. We can see your eyes go up and down. We see them pause at certain areas. We don’t ‘know’ what you’re thinking, but we can guess. We're thinking thoughts right back at you, usually violent thoughts, but not always.

C'mon Vivien, as if you women *never* do the same...

I see no harm in looking as long as the other person doesn't feel uncomfortable about it. And of course you don't always have to be so obvious about looking either.

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Vivien · Post by **Vivien** » Tue Aug 07, 2001 8:05 am

Originally posted by Astafas:
C'mon Vivien, as if you women *never* do the same... I see no harm in looking as long as the other person doesn't feel uncomfortable about it. And of course you don't always have to be so obvious about it either.

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I look at women more than I look at men.

Usually if they have cute pants or shoes or something which I may then want to buy

I actually don't usually care about being looked over...unless the man is married. For some reason, I feel he's being disloyal to his wife, and don't like it.

Georgi · Post by **Georgi** » Tue Aug 07, 2001 8:16 am

Originally posted by Astafas:
C'mon Vivien, as if you women *never* do the same... I see no harm in looking as long as the other person doesn't feel uncomfortable about it. And of course you don't always have to be so obvious about looking either.

I think women may do it, but a *lot* less than men... and some guys' ideas of not obvious, jeez...

You'd be surprised

Astafas · Post by **Astafas** » Tue Aug 07, 2001 8:25 am

Originally posted by Vivien:
I actually don't usually care about being looked over...unless the man is married. For some reason, I feel he's being disloyal to his wife, and don't like it.

Why? Because you have some kind of obligation to his wife? Or because at the same time that he shows you his interest, he also shows you that he's nothing to have?

Vivien · Post by **Vivien** » Tue Aug 07, 2001 8:30 am

Because if he's married, his thoughts regarding sex should have his wife somewhere in there. I admit, I'm not married, but then I don't leer at men either.

If he's looking at me, does he truly appreciate the wonderful woman he has at home?
Also, in general, married men tend to be older than me. I am not a sexual fantasy, I am a human being.

Am I making sense at all? I'm being very honest here, it makes me uncomfortable when an older married man ogles. Looking is fine. Leering is not.

Gwalchmai · Post by **Gwalchmai** » Tue Aug 07, 2001 8:31 am

Originally posted by Vivien:
Okay, so who was it that mentioned looking women up and down as if they are a piece of meat?!

I have one thing to say to that person.
YES WOMEN KNOW WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING AT. We can see your eyes go up and down. We see them pause at certain areas. We don’t ‘know’ what you’re thinking, but we can guess. We're thinking thoughts right back at you, usually violent thoughts, but not always.

I knew it! I always suspected that women know more than they were letting on. Back in High School, I developed a theory that women were psychic, since they always knew just what to say to get be totally, completely confused!

Although, funny story, I was walking with a female friend on day back in college, and another man walked past us staring at her chest. She got so angry and started venting at me. I wondered why she was mad since she was wearing a t-shirt with words across her chest. The guy was probably just reading her shirt!

Astafas · Post by **Astafas** » Tue Aug 07, 2001 8:34 am

Originally posted by Vivien:
Because if he's married, his thoughts regarding sex should have his wife somewhere in there.

Am I making sense at all? I'm being very honest here, it makes me uncomfortable when an older married man ogles. Looking is fine. Leering is not.

Maybe his wife is present in there, too.

You make perfect sense.

Astafas · Post by **Astafas** » Tue Aug 07, 2001 8:37 am

Leaving work. Bye all, really nice talking to you - maybe I should check in on the SYM board more often. Til later!

Vivien · Post by **Vivien** » Tue Aug 07, 2001 8:37 am

Originally posted by Astafas:
Maybe his wife is present in there, too.

You make perfect sense.

Astafas: Well, that's fine then

As long as she's there, he can have other women there as well.

I'm openminded

Georgi:

You're right you know. Women do not look at men as much. Why is that? Are women more attractive?

Gwalchmai: *ahem* I'm sure that's it. We are psychic you know

dragon wench · Post by **dragon wench** » Tue Aug 07, 2001 8:39 am

Looking is fine. Leering is not.

I agree with Vivien on this. It's the way that the looking is done. Being gazed at as though you are nothing more than a piece of flesh is offensive, whereas being smiled at by somebody who is genuininely intrigued by you as a person is flattering.

Vivien · Post by **Vivien** » Tue Aug 07, 2001 8:40 am

Originally posted by dragon wench:
I agree with Vivien on this. It's the way that the looking is done. Being gazed at as though you are nothing more than a piece of flesh is offensive, whereas being smiled at by somebody who is genuininely intrigued by you as a person is flattering.

Thanks

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