I went with Saerileth in the end all the rection about her both good and bad made me want to experiace the Mod myself. I also installed Keto for this run through the game.
I did download Fade, Tashia, Chloe, deArnise Romance and Imoen Romance Mod's for future runs.
Thanks everyone for your recommendations.
Once again time to give someone the boot to make room for Coran. LOL