The Tap and Tea

Damuna_Nova · Post by **Damuna_Nova** » Tue May 16, 2006 1:36 pm

[QUOTE=Aramant]Who's just being silly? Chu? Who threatens to quit SYM at the drop of a hat?

Or Damuna_Nova, who whines about depression whenever someone teases him or uses an abbreviated form of his name that he doesn't like (not "BL"- things like Dammy or whatever), but who'll turn around and toss jokes and insults at others whenever he wants to?[/QUOTE]

You insult me, I fight back.

Juniper · Post by **Juniper** » Tue May 16, 2006 1:42 pm

[QUOTE=Damuna_Nova]You insult me, I fight back.[/QUOTE]
OK..enough, please.....

The bar is open for polite conversation only....PM's are available 24-7 for issues to be resolved

dragon wench · Post by **dragon wench** » Tue May 16, 2006 1:43 pm

Yes, I second Juni.

If you have an issue with somebody, go do it via PM, not here!

Forum rules do not allow for flaming, in case you had forgotten.

Damuna_Nova · Post by **Damuna_Nova** » Tue May 16, 2006 1:46 pm

[QUOTE=dragon wench]Yes, I second Juni.

If you have an issue with somebody, go do it via PM, not here!

Forum rules do not allow for flaming, in case you had forgotten.[/QUOTE]

They're the agressors, I'm not going to stand down just because they've been here longer.

Ravager · Post by **Ravager** » Tue May 16, 2006 1:48 pm

[QUOTE=Damuna_Nova]They're the agressors, I'm not going to stand down just because they've been here longer.[/QUOTE]
And fighting back really solves the issue, doesn't it?

*sigh*

Damuna_Nova · Post by **Damuna_Nova** » Tue May 16, 2006 1:50 pm

[QUOTE=Ravager]And fighting back really solves the issue, doesn't it?

*sigh*[/QUOTE]

Giving in doesn't solve anything either.

dragon wench · Post by **dragon wench** » Tue May 16, 2006 1:50 pm

Oh please, quit whining Damuna, this is getting ridiculous.

Your problem is that you can't take teasing and banter and you over react, which in turn makes others respond excessively. I suggest you learn to deal with it.

Darzog · Post by **Darzog** » Tue May 16, 2006 1:51 pm

Juni, just a cool water for me right now. Trying to digest BBQ ribs from lunch. *ooof*

Maybe Chu was right. Maybe we do suck donkies.

Juniper · Post by **Juniper** » Tue May 16, 2006 1:52 pm

[QUOTE=Damuna_Nova]They're the agressors, I'm not going to stand down just because they've been here longer.[/QUOTE]

Take this conversation elsewhere, please....

More than one thread now has been polluted with this *%&*ing nonesense.

Lestat · Post by **Lestat** » Tue May 16, 2006 1:54 pm

[QUOTE=Darzog]Maybe Chu was right. Maybe we do suck donkies.

[/QUOTE]Hey, hey, hey! Speak for yourself. Petting is as far as I go...

Damuna_Nova · Post by **Damuna_Nova** » Tue May 16, 2006 1:55 pm

[quote="dragon wench]Your problem is that you can't take teasing and banter and you over react"]

You don't know me.

How about I call you "Whore" or "Ho"?

After all, that is one of the meanings of your name.

If you people want to take the piss out of my name, then call me "Egg", because "Muna" means "ovum" in something like Finnish

Juniper · Post by **Juniper** » Tue May 16, 2006 1:55 pm

[QUOTE=Darzog]Juni, just a cool water for me right now. Trying to digest BBQ ribs from lunch. *ooof*

Maybe Chu was right. Maybe we do suck donkies.

[/QUOTE]
RIGHT!
*serves dar some ice water...and hands him a napkin* theres BBQ sauce on your shirt...

dragon wench · Post by **dragon wench** » Tue May 16, 2006 1:59 pm

[QUOTE=Damuna_Nova]You don't know me.

How about I call you "Whore" or "Ho"?

After all, that is one of the meanings of your name.

If you people want to take the piss out of my name, then call me "Egg", because "Muna" means "ovum" in something like Finnish[/QUOTE]

*shrugs* I couldn't care less. I've received better insults from better people.

Oh really? Like "Wrath of Egg" perhaps?

Damuna_Nova · Post by **Damuna_Nova** » Tue May 16, 2006 2:01 pm

My point is that people shouldn't mock someone's name unless it is truly terrible.

Darzog · Post by **Darzog** » Tue May 16, 2006 2:02 pm

Nova, there is no call to snap at DW. She is one of the most tolerant people on the forum and has not attacked or provoked you in anyway. All she did was ask everyone involved to take the ranting somewhere else. Have some respect for her and Juni even if you don't for the rest of us.

*sips some water then daps at the BBQ sauce*
Good thing the interviews aren't until tomorrow, huh?

[quote="Lestat]Hey"]
Petting can still get you to third base. You might as well take home once you're that far!

Damuna_Nova · Post by **Damuna_Nova** » Tue May 16, 2006 2:05 pm

[QUOTE=Darzog]Nova, there is no call to snap at DW. She is one of the most tolerant people on the forum and has not attacked or provoked you in anyway. All she did was ask everyone involved to take the ranting somewhere else. Have some respect for her and Juni even if you don't for the rest of us.

*sips some water then daps at the BBQ sauce*
Good thing the interviews aren't until tomorrow, huh?[/QUOTE]

She's being worse than any of them, she is saying I should simply accept that people are taking the piss out of me.

Darzog · Post by **Darzog** » Tue May 16, 2006 2:08 pm

To be fair, I don't want any of your piss. We have separate rooms for that (from your poll response I think you can pick either picture).

Spoiler

See how I'm just deflecting the annoyance and making a joke? It's not a great defense mechanism for real life or spouses but works exceptionally well dealing with online arguments.

dragon wench · Post by **dragon wench** » Tue May 16, 2006 2:09 pm

Damuna,
This is a tolerant and generally friendly board. People are welcomed and initially given the benefit of the doubt. At this point, if you are being treated poorly it is because you have irritated people beyond the point of patience!

Lestat · Post by **Lestat** » Tue May 16, 2006 2:10 pm

[QUOTE=Damuna_Nova]She's being worse than any of them, she is saying I should simply accept that people are taking the piss out of me.[/QUOTE]Nope she's telling you to take it to PMs.

And if you seriously have a problem with some of the members then you take your issues to court i.e. the mods.

I'm trying here, Damuna, to defend your arse because I find some of the treatment you received obnoxious and I accept we all have different sensibilities, but you do not make it any easier by these type of comments...

Damuna_Nova · Post by **Damuna_Nova** » Tue May 16, 2006 2:19 pm

[QUOTE=Lestat]And if you seriously have a problem with some of the members then you take your issues to court i.e. the mods.[/QUOTE]

While my thread was being burned down before it even got a chance to become full, I contacted the mods twice, once because Chu posted when my thread asks that people not post, and the second because after calling in mods a mod came and made very harsh comments about the thread.

This has completely destroyed my faith in mods being reasonable.