Posted by SS -
That's nothing, Ysh, I moved 21 times in 16 years, not counting the first 2-3 years of my life when me and my parents lived on the road 'moving' from hotel/motel to hotel/motel once a weak on average, often going all the way across the country. The longest I've lived in one town is 3 years, but I lived in four different houses during that time. I don't have a place I call home.
I can understand this, and as a result have no 'childhood friends' left. I had not moved before the age of five when I went to live with my Dad. In the following 18 years I moved 23 times. I went to so many different schools in my time it was surprising I got any qualifications...
At 13 I went to school in London for a year. On returning to Yorkshire I was two years behind and had a hell of a lot of catching up to do in so little time...(I did it though
) The good thing was the generosity of the headteacher at my new school who used to give me free private lessons to bring me up and avoid what I was so against - being kept down a year.
This is disgusting when you consider the two school were only 200 miles apart, that one year in one could put me two years behind in another
Hopefully with the new curriculum moves over here, though it is very stressful for teachers and puts pressure on the kids, it should pan out that all kids across the UK get the same basic education...
Posted by Minerva -
I wish I have moving with my family/partner, really. I have to think and do everything myself, and that does get to me. Even if I ask (and pay) removal company to do all the job, it's still stressful, because I can't talk and discuss to someone in my house, you know.
When you are moving a great distance it adds more stress. As my many moves as a child were orchestrated by my parents, and as an adult I was careful enough to keep my belongings to four black sacks
I didn't find it so stressful. With me the stress came from a need to settle.
Many of my house moves have been done on the Tube
or later with the help of a friends car
[ 09-25-2001: Message edited by: Yshania ]