As you say @Antimatter, "intelligence" per se is only a small part of the factors that determine how a person would act and what capacity the person has to do different things. However, I just want to say that I in no way meant to target you and your post, my post was merely a general reflection from reading this thread and from what I've seen among friends, in school, and also in clinical work.
Originally posted by Galuf the Dwarf
CE: *grits teeth* Oh boy... guess I fit in that category in some ways, or I feel left out in the cold because I'm not like alot of others, with my interests and beliefs.
And I said RESPONSIVE people, as in very responsive about the world around them. IOW, I was talking about the people that really listen to what happens around the entire world, and is somehow affected by it.
Responsible people never seemed to me like they were too down and dull. At least not so much to seem like they dread their position in their own life's workings.I hope this clears up anything.
Oh, I've been in that situation as well, I felt really, really alienated from the world when I was a teenager...and took a lot of hard work to change that. I had difficulties finding people who shared my interests, my world view etc...however, I am a very social and extrovert personality type, so I met lots of people who shared my problems, and I noticed that most of them attributed their situation to being more intelligent, more analytical or more caring than others.
And yes, I meant the same as you with "responsible", ie in a global perspective. One course an individual can also be very responsible in a more local perspective, for instance towards his/her own society, family, job duties, etc.
However, again I want to say that my post was in no way meant to target you Antimatter or Galuf or any other particular person, what I wanted to discuss was the mythos I see in Western society around "intelligence". (Please see also my thread "Is intelligence overrated for an explanation of what I mean.) In our society there are a lot of common myths about intelligence, creativity and other features our society values, and one such myth is that intelligent/talented/creative/artistic people are more unhappy or more alieniated from their peers and other people in general. Another such common myth is that psychiatric conditions such as schizophrenia, autism, depression or bipolar disorder are connected to high intelligence, special talents or artistic abilities. I really, really wish these myths were true since that would give me the feeling that the world was more "fair" - I really like the thought that people who suffer from a disabling condition such as autism for instance, would have been granted special talents that may at least partly make up for their problems. However...none of these myths are true. Whereas every individual has his/her own unique features, cogntive profile, personality profile, emotional and social patterns etc - there are simply no connections between talent/"intelligence" and any of those things.
I think everybody who feels "different" and alienated from their peer group/society, looks for an explanation for this. Some people unfortunately attributes this to themselves being bad or wrong in some way. Other attribute it to themselves being better that others in certain respects. This attributing is of course part of the process of learning to know yourself and identifying yourself as an individual, but often such attributions are not at all helpful in changing a situation if a person is not happy with the current life situation.
In my opinion, differences in personality traits play a much larger role in this than difference in intelligence. Another important factor, especially for children and young people, is that there are great varieties in maturity rate both in physiological, social, emotional and cogntive areas. What in psychology is called "Exceptionally gifted children", is mostly a question of those children having a cognitive system that matures a bit faster than for most other kids. These differences gradually disappear and become unimportant as the "Exceptionally gifted children" grow up, and in adult age they hardly play any role at all. The human brain has an incredible plasticity and flexibility.