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The Worst Pains That You Have Experienced

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 6:01 am
by TheAmazingOopah
Though getting your heart broken or lose a close person are tough issues, this thread is mostly to deal with physical pains, like bringing a child to the world or getting shot in the knee cap (I don't know, maybe you're an undercover agent or something). Just present the most painful body pains you have ever felt.

To start off with myself:
In one year time, I had broken both my wrists, first the left one, and a half year after the left one had healed, the right one. Now even though breaking something isn't nice, I still found the basic thing of breaking a bone not that extremely painful, even at the age of 10 and 11. The thing is more that with both wrists, there was something extra to spice it up.

The first time, we thought the wrist wasn't excactly broken, just bruised, and were foolish enough not to go to the hospital. Aye, how foolish that excactly was, I felt the next night because the pain got very much worse, growing big in a throbbingly kinda way. Probably the worst night of my life.
Then with the second wrist, we did went inmediately to the hospital (hey, we are not THAT dumb), but the bone had broken in such a way, that it was shifted. Basicly, if the crack would heal the bone would have grown not completely right, so that it had to be set straight again first. The old fashioned way. I got an injection in my arm to soften the pain (that hurt like hell) and while one doctor held me, two other doctors were pulling and pushing to get the bone straight. It only took a few minutes and it went right, but even though I had gotten an injection, it still was a world of pain and it felt like the needle hadn't helped a thing. Afterwards I realise, thank God for that injection, as without it must've hurt a lot more.

Another pain to mention is a dental pain, more familiar to most people I think. I was careless enough to get one hole in my teeth a couple of years ago and had it filled without an injection. The pain of that monstrous, fast spinning instrument going right in your teeth just hits you right in the nerve of the teeth. It's a pain that seems to touch excactly the fundaments of your teeth and one that goes through your whole head. Feels like torture. Still, I'm glad I didn't got drugged, because the experience of that pain made sure and will make sure that I'm never getting caries again.

Oh yeah, and a special note for cramps as well. They are not as worse as the pains mentioned above, but every time I get one, it surprises me and reminds me how bad pain can feel. It shakes you all up. But I've gotten so many cramps in the past few years, that by now I've gotten used to them:laugh:

Well, I'm sure other people have some painful stories to share too, probably even worse than what I told. Don't hesitate to post anything. Shock me.

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 6:11 am
by fable
No offense, but I'm not qute sure what purpose is served by discussing such things. It reminds me too much of elderly (cough) people getting together to complain and bragg about their various operations. I could only thing when this happens, "Who cares? Everybody has to go through this. Share pain with your intimate ones, who can help. Share beauty with the world." But I rate rather low on a scale as a world class prophet. ;)

Alright, your thread, your conditions. :D So I'll conform to your wishes, and post: I've had severe chronic asthma since I was two. An attack (of anaphylaxsis) is debilitating both in the short and longterm and extremely painful. I found this pain far worse than my heart attack last year, though I described the latter at the time like a two inch wide steel bar rammed straight through my chest.

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 7:53 am
by Phreddie
fable wrote:No offense, but I'm not qute sure what purpose is served by discussing such things. It reminds me too much of elderly (cough) people getting together to complain and bragg about their various operations.
You should feel right at home Fable! I cant imagine all the problems a Babylonian god sucha s your self has experienced, please, share your wisdom. ;) :D


As for myself, Ive had about twenty teeth pulled in my sixteen years of life, and while the yanking and the pulling can be rather aggravating, its the needle in the gums to 'help the pain' that kills me everytime. Honestly, who stabs someone in the gums?

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 8:04 am
by Gunofgod
TheAmazingOopah wrote:Another pain to mention is a dental pain, more familiar to most people I think. I was careless enough to get one hole in my teeth a couple of years ago and had it filled without an injection. The pain of that monstrous, fast spinning instrument going right in your teeth just hits you right in the nerve of the teeth. It's a pain that seems to touch excactly the fundaments of your teeth and one that goes through your whole head. Feels like torture. Still, I'm glad I didn't got drugged, because the experience of that pain made sure and will make sure that I'm never getting caries again.
I always have holes in my teeth filled without an injection. :eek:

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 8:13 am
by fable
Phreddie wrote:Honestly, who stabs someone in the gums?
Publically sanctioned sadists with long, pointed objects. In other words, dentists.

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 8:23 am
by dragon wench
Hmmm.. This thread does indeed have the potential to sound like a group of elderly codgers sitting around discussing their various surgeries and problems with bowel elimination.. :eek: :D

However, to topic.. ;)
The worst pain I have ever experienced is undoubtedly when my skin became a sore, weeping, and infected, mess. Every part of me felt as though millions of burning needles had replaced my skin. I have suffered from eczema all of my life, and around 18 years ago a number of trigger factors collided and I subsequently ended up in hospital under heavy doses of antiobiotics and cortisone (a steroid medication used for conditions with severe inflammation).

For myself, I do not view childbirth as painful, even though it was (I did it drug free) because it was 'positive pain'.. if that makes sense? ;)

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 8:28 am
by Phreddie
dragon wench wrote:Hmmm.. This thread does indeed have the potential to sound like a group of elderly codgers sitting around discussing their various surgeries and problems with bowel elimination.. :eek: :D

However, to topic.. ;)
The worst pain I have ever experienced is undoubtedly when my skin became a sore, weeping, and infected, mess. I have suffered from eczema all of my life, and around 18 years ago a number of trigger factors collided and I subsequently ended up in hospital under heavy doses of antiobiotics and cortisone (a steroid medication used for conditions with severe inflammation).

For myself, I do not view childbirth as painful, even though it was (I did it drug free) because it was 'positive pain'.. if that makes sense? ;)
To speak for my mother: Her arthritis, shes in constant pain in her hands in feet (she too will go for cortisone shots, if she desperately needs something), the medications she takes to dull the pains make her lethargic, she naps more than she used to, waking up to pain. While she is very strong with deal with it, and attempting to try to hide it from us, I know it must be one of the most painful things she has ever experienced.

@DW, wait for that 'positive pain' to grow up a little, those teen age years. You'll change your mind soon enough ;) .

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 9:54 am
by Chimaera182
When I was in high school, I don't know exactly why, but head aches became frequent, and migraines the norm. I was plagued with at least one head ache a week--it was seriously that regular--and a migraine came just about once a month. Usually, I was blessed with low-end migraines; painful, certainly, but nothing to cry about.

But two instances are burned into memory that were very tear-inducing.

The first was the one time the migraine hit me suddenly. It was just about the most painful thing I had experienced in my life, and to date still is. I had to lie down because the pain was so excruciatingly crippling. Lying down on a soft, comfortable pillow actually made the pain worse, not better. I had my TV on, and the noise made the pain even worse. The light in my room due to my having nothing but light curtains made it all the worse; years later my parents finally deigned to grace my room with blinds; too little, too late, as I moved out shortly thereafter. But not only did the light hurt my eyes, but when I covered my closed eyes to shut out all light, the pain still got worse. Aspirin didn't help. It was the first time in my entire life that I seriously thought my head was going to implode; I could actually feel my brain pushing outward against my skull, which of couse made the pain even that much worse. :rolleyes: I had to bear with it for hours, and the pain was so strong and so constant that it reduced me to tears.

The second instance of a painful migraine actually beats out the first, not because of the pain itself but the longevity. You don't know pain until you have had a 48-hour migraine (unless you're a woman; I always take a backseat to someone who squeezes a watermelon through a dime-sized hole, even if DW thinks it was a positive kind of pain :p ). I woke up with it, I went to school with it, I came home with it; turns out, I was actually sick, and the migraine was a symptom. The pain wasn't quite as excruciating as the time I mentioned above, but it wasn't too far off, either, and it stayed with me for 2 whole days. Then, it went away, and then it came BACK! And for two more days still! Two consecutive 48-hour migraines. It's a long-lived agony.

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 11:35 am
by Dottie
fable wrote:Everybody has to go through this. Share pain with your intimate ones, who can help.
This is where you are wrong Fable. Some of us, like me, live lives almost completely devoid of physical pain. The worst thing I can remember is the food bins being uncomfortable heavy when walking home from the store. :)

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 11:50 am
by VonDondu
Dottie wrote:This is where you are wrong Fable. Some of us, like me, live lives almost completely devoid of physical pain. The worst thing I can remember is the food bins being uncomfortable heavy when walking home from the store. :)
What about humger pains? Don't you have a big appetite? :)

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 12:22 pm
by Dottie
VonDondu wrote:What about humger pains? Don't you have a big appetite? :)
How on earth did you know that? Anyway, my appetite for the taste far outweighs my daily nutrition needs, so it doesn't cause any pain.

Discounting the pain of seeing my waist measure increase, but I thought that type was off topic. ;)

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 12:28 pm
by TheAmazingOopah
fable wrote:No offense, but I'm not qute sure what purpose is served by discussing such things. It reminds me too much of elderly (cough) people getting together to complain and bragg about their various operations. I could only thing when this happens, "Who cares? Everybody has to go through this. Share pain with your intimate ones, who can help. Share beauty with the world." But I rate rather low on a scale as a world class prophet. ;)
If we would open a Nostalgia thread to complain and sigh how much better it was in the good old days, then we would definitely make a decent bunch off grampa's and granny's. ;) , but just talking about pain is I think really not just preserved for the elderly, nor a way to brag about your "achievements". Or I mean, I didn't meant to brag with my post, nor did the others I think. It's just that first of all I think it's an interesting subject (though I don't enjoy it, don't think of me as a sadist), and secondly sharing stuff like this serves an essential part, I think. Many people complain about how bad their lives are, and how many things they don't have and in how much pain they are. Though in some cases that really might be justified, in many cases the people are basicly just spoiled and do not know real pain. Which I think can be said about my case: looking back on the pain that I have experienced, I think I really have no right to complain about the meagre amount of small pains that I have experienced, since by excample Chimaera with his migraine really has been through some hell seemingly, with which I strongly sympathize by the way. Just view this thread as a way to regain more appreaciation again for your own life, and the things you still have (or the pains you don't have), instead of being so miserable about what seems to be missing. No accusations here, just defensing my thread here. :)
Phreddie wrote: As for myself, Ive had about twenty teeth pulled in my sixteen years of life, and while the yanking and the pulling can be rather aggravating, its the needle in the gums to 'help the pain' that kills me everytime. Honestly, who stabs someone in the gums?
Twenty teeth? Ouch, how did that happen? Did they were teeth both out of your child teeth, as your current teeth?
dragon wench wrote:For myself, I do not view childbirth as painful, even though it was (I did it drug free) because it was 'positive pain'.. if that makes sense? ;)
I think that makes perfect sense. I suppose you mean a mentally thing here? That you know that you experience the pain for a good cause? That afterwards, you will be happy to have gone through the pain because of the great result?

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 12:37 pm
by mr_sir
When I was 11 I slipped on some ice and had a hairline fracture on my wrist. The doctors missed in on the x-ray and for some reason it didn't heal properly. When I was 14 it got infected and I had to have 6 months of physio before I could use my right arm again.

It did have its upside though cos I was allowed to use a laptop at school for 6 months :)

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 12:40 pm
by dragon wench
TheAmazingOopah wrote:I think that makes perfect sense. I suppose you mean a mentally thing here? That you know that you experience the pain for a good cause? That afterwards, you will be happy to have gone through the pain because of the great result?
I guess I do mean that in a sort of psychological sense. Clearly, it did hurt, in fact it hurt like Hell. I recall at the time thinking something along the lines of "I had no idea it would hurt *this* much." :D
Although, one's body does apparently produce natural, pain-reducing endorphins during childbirth, so that may have helped.
But, it was also a rather wonderful and magical experience as well...to give birth to this being who had lived within for nine months, there was very much the feeling of taking part in an amazing creative act. Plus, as I mentioned, I took no painkilling drugs, so I was entirely lucid throughout the entire experience. :)

Not to derail your thread though, I just wanted to answer your question ;)

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 12:47 pm
by Xandax
Hmm - having been subjected to loads of pains through my life so far - I'd think .... the worst (physical :D ) would be the time some 6 years ago when I drove into a car on my bike with about 40-45 km/h and hit my head in the window and flew some distance and then hit ground.
(To my defence, the car was parked illegally on the area for bikes on a dark road at the bottom of a good distance hill)
However that alone wasn't the worst pain, it was when I got to the emergency room and they needed to clean my forehead with a nailbrush to get residue of asphalt cleaned out.
That hurt like I don't know what else, and when they were done spatter's of blood where up and down the walls (glad I shouldn't clean that up).
God that was painfull......

Hmm - another might be the time a car accidently opened its door into my side when biking past it, so I got slung into the middle of the road and hit by a rather large truck. Then as I was to be brought to the emergency room in the ambulance, I was positioned on the stretcher in a rather painfull position, which I couldn't move out of until I had been x-rayed. That was also rather painfull.

Or all the other times I've gotten injuered.... remarkably I've never actually broken any limbs. I only have huge scar on my shin from the truck (second time) and a still visible one on my forehead (carwindow/asphalt first time) - but I never broken anything :D (yet)

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 12:50 pm
by Dowaco
You are right about breaking bones not being that painful. I dislocated my left ankle and broke the fibula in two places requiring 8 screws and a plate to repair. All I felt was the sonic waves of two closely spaced cracking sounds reaching my ears. Iv'e played a game of softball after breaking a thumb and a game of basketball after breaking a wrist.

Dental pain is intense but usually short lived.

I have had what I think was a kidney stone though which was excruciating enough to make me sweat and almost pass out. I will offer that as my most painful experience.

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 2:28 pm
by VonDondu
Dottie wrote:How on earth did you know that? Anyway, my appetite for the taste far outweighs my daily nutrition needs, so it doesn't cause any pain...
I wish I could say it was a fantastic intuition on my part, but it's actually quite mundane. In the thread about Recent Orgasmic Taste Sensations, you said, "I'm more of a gluttonous person actually. It doesn't matter a lot if the quality is a bit so so, if you can make it up by quantity." :)

TheAmazingOopah wrote:Twenty teeth? Ouch, how did that happen? Did they were teeth both out of your child teeth, as your current teeth?
I don't know what Phreddie experienced, but I've had 22 teeth pulled by a dentist. Eight of my baby teeth (the ones in front) fell out by themselves (with a little bit of pulling by me or my father), but after that, none of the others wanted to come out. My permanent teeth grew in before the rest of my baby teeth fell out, so my mouth was very crowded (and I was in bad need of orthodontic treatment). My dentist pulled 12 baby teeth, and then he pulled 4 of my permanent bicuspids (the ones right next to my canines) to make more room in my mouth before I got braces. I also had my 4 wisdom teeth removed before they were even fully formed (which was one of the only surgical procedures I've ever had).

I wasn't planning to write about this, but I just had two teeth pulled last week so I can get them replaced with implants. One of them was a molar that never grew properly, which caused a gap to form between the tooth and the bone. It was starting to hurt, and I decided to get it replaced before it caused any more trouble. It could have been saved if the dentist had done a whole lot of work to it, but an implant is a easier and not much more expensive. I also had a front tooth pulled. I had a root canal done and a crown put on it when I was 17, and it gradually deteriorated. My crown fell off a couple of months ago and it couldn't be replaced because the root was split into three pieces. The original injury occurred when I was in high school during an attempted sexual assault that caused other injuries and indignities as well, so I'm dealing with a lot of emotional baggage as well as physical pain. I'm trying not to let my vanity feel wounded, but when you're missing a front tooth, everybody notices, and it's amazing how one missing tooth can change my whole appearance.

Children's teeth have a lot more pulp than adults' teeth (they grow more solid with age), and children's teeth come out a lot easier than adults' teeth. So I was in for a surprise when I had my teeth pulled last week. Getting teeth removed when I was a kid wasn't a big deal, so I wasn't expecting any pain, but it was a lot more painful this time around. The dentist had to work the teeth back and forth for about twenty minutes to loosen them up before they would come out, so my whole mouth is still sore. I'm pretty good at controlling pain mentally (certain kinds of pain, anyway), but the pain is really getting on my nerves this time.

The comments people make about my appearance are also pretty annoying. There is one interesting thing about it, though. Usually, people who don't know me think I'm a stuck-up bitch when they judge me by my appearance; but since I'm missing a tooth, people as a whole are kinder and more sympathetic to me, especially people who are in lower income groups. I guess I look like I'm poor or down on my luck, so people don't assume I'm snooty anymore. But since they are "concerned", they still tell me I look awful and I need to get my teeth fixed. I guess I really AM snooty since my reaction is, "That's about what I'd expect." :)

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 3:06 pm
by Bloodmist
Xandax wrote:Hmm - having been subjected to loads of pains through my life so far - I'd think .... the worst (physical :D ) would be the time some 6 years ago when I drove into a car on my bike with about 40-45 km/h and hit my head in the window and flew some distance and then hit ground.
(To my defence, the car was parked illegally on the area for bikes on a dark road at the bottom of a good distance hill)
However that alone wasn't the worst pain, it was when I got to the emergency room and they needed to clean my forehead with a nailbrush to get residue of asphalt cleaned out.
That hurt like I don't know what else, and when they were done spatter's of blood where up and down the walls (glad I shouldn't clean that up).
God that was painfull......

Hmm - another might be the time a car accidently opened its door into my side when biking past it, so I got slung into the middle of the road and hit by a rather large truck. Then as I was to be brought to the emergency room in the ambulance, I was positioned on the stretcher in a rather painfull position, which I couldn't move out of until I had been x-rayed. That was also rather painfull.

Shouldn't you just get that license and let the bikers hit your vehicle, instead of the other way around? You apparently can't handle the bike :D

I would love to share some exciting moments of intense physical pain with you all, but I've actually been pretty lucky so far in my nineteen years on this earth. Never broken anything, or had any seriuos illnesses. Just a couple of sprained ankles and wrists (which can hurt, sure, but not in comparison to the adventures of you guys). I had hernia (I think it's called?) when I was younger, but it's so long ago I don't remember anything. I've been told that it hurt like hell, and my parents had to stay up all night to entertatin me the night before my operation, because I wasn't allowed to eat anything and they had to keep me occupied, which as you can imagine is pretty hard with a three year old child who hasn't consumed anything but fluids for 12 hours.

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 4:18 pm
by BlueSky
Pain

Having your clothing melt on your body in a house fire, can only say that it was by far the worst thing I ever experienced....luck....no permanent damage, jus lots of scars on back and a few on my arms...

Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 4:43 pm
by C Elegans
VonDondu wrote:I wish I could say it was a fantastic intuition on my part, but it's actually quite mundane. In the thread about Recent Orgasmic Taste Sensations, you said, "I'm more of a gluttonous person actually. It doesn't matter a lot if the quality is a bit so so, if you can make it up by quantity." :)
So it was cold reading, not telepathy :D

I feel like my old grandmother going through my spells of physical pain :D
I don't know what Phreddie experienced, but I've had 22 teeth pulled by a dentist.
I've also had a lot of problems with my teeth, but I don't remember how many were pulled out. As a child, I had a few baby teeth pulled out, but the main problems with my teeth arise from a biking accident where I smashed 8 molars so I have a lot of ceramic crowns. Like you, I have also removed my wisdom teeth by surgery, they were cut out from the side, broken to pieces inside the jawbone because they were stuck there, and then removed.

I have fractured a finger plus the collar bone, the first when running and tripping, the second when I was thrown off an angry horse. I've had three knee surgeries from climbing and ballet injuries, the first one I had after I'd been free climbing and falling off a rock in Iceland. Since I couldn't walk on the knee, I had to crawl 13 kms (8 miles) down the mountain and through a valley full of glacial rivers. Funnily, I don't remember much pain, I just remember it was quite tedious, especially through the water! :D

Outdoor activites like climbing and mountainbiking and flying sports like hang gliding or parachuting usually result in various injuries. Dance training at a high level, also results in especially knee and foot injuries. Everybody I know who has been doing these kind of activies have a multitude of injuries, it's just something you accept. The body ages anyway, it is subject to disease and we all die in the end, so there is no point refraining from things you want to do in order to keep a perfect, never injured body.