How do you like to receive attention?

C Elegans · Post by **C Elegans** » Sun Sep 30, 2001 4:46 pm

How do you like to get attention from a person your are romantically/sexually interested in?

Do you like to be invited out for dinner? Receive a phone call in the middle of the night? Gifts? Flowers? Crazy surprises? Serenades beneath your balcony? Love letters? Being abducted from school/work?

NeKr0mAnCeR · Post by **NeKr0mAnCeR** » Sun Sep 30, 2001 5:13 pm

i could post some nice ideas (

) but then it would be deleted.

Sailor Saturn · Post by **Sailor Saturn** » Sun Sep 30, 2001 5:26 pm

Almost anything romantic works for me, just as long as I at least get some attention. More often than not, though, it seems that I'm giving a lot more attention than I'm getting...

Nightmare · Post by **Nightmare** » Sun Sep 30, 2001 6:09 pm

I'm only 14, so I have to say phone calls.

Aegis · Post by **Aegis** » Sun Sep 30, 2001 6:09 pm

Light physical attention. Stuff like being near each other. I think anything more physical then kissing should be left for private.

Bloodstalker · Post by **Bloodstalker** » Mon Oct 01, 2001 8:00 am

No comment....

fable · Post by **fable** » Mon Oct 01, 2001 8:11 am

Almost anything thoughtful and unexpected. My wife once wired a dozen roses to be in my hotel room when I went for several days to visit Microprose's offices. I melted into goo.

Shadow Sandrock · Post by **Shadow Sandrock** » Mon Oct 01, 2001 8:24 am

I talk to them first before starting anything... I recommend a long friendly conversation that gradually leads the the question, "What do you think of me?" Then you tell them what you think of them, and it all goes uphill from there, usually...

average joe · Post by **average joe** » Tue Oct 02, 2001 10:55 am

Originally posted by Sailor Saturn:
Almost anything romantic works for me, just as long as I at least get some attention. More often than not, though, it seems that I'm giving a lot more attention than I'm getting...

Been there, sweety. I know how you feel

Don't worry though. Eventually you find someone who cares about you and wants more than anything just to know you and make you smile. I haven't met that person yet, but i got no doubts she's around

Rob-hin · Post by **Rob-hin** » Tue Oct 02, 2001 11:05 am

Originally posted by C Elegans:
How do you like to get attention from a person your are romantically/sexually interested in?

Do you like to be invited out for dinner? Receive a phone call in the middle of the night? Gifts? Flowers? Crazy surprises? Serenades beneath your balcony? Love letters? Being abducted from school/work?

Are you just curioes or do you need advice from:
"The Looooove Doctor"

Random Shadow · Post by **Random Shadow** » Wed Oct 03, 2001 5:49 pm

I seriously hate getting any sort of attention, but what would get me would be not big attentions but the little sorta indirect things--like a note left in my car after a bad day, a silly smiley-face sticker stuck on my CD player...*shrugs*

Aegis · Post by **Aegis** » Wed Oct 03, 2001 6:55 pm

*Walks in, a small carboard sign in his hand. He hangs it on a nearby post. It reads...

The Love doctor is in
*

Nippy · Post by **Nippy** » Wed Oct 03, 2001 11:48 pm

Originally posted by Aegis:
*Walks in, a small carboard sign in his hand. He hangs it on a nearby post. It reads...

The Love doctor is in
*

LOL Aegis, you the Doctor? Your idea of medical aid involves an injection in someones ass!

Sailor Saturn · Post by **Sailor Saturn** » Wed Oct 03, 2001 11:54 pm

Originally posted by Nippy:
LOL Aegis, you the Doctor? Your idea of medical aid involves an injection in someones ass!

That's only when he is dealing with guys. He aims for other areas as well when dealing with women.

*prepares for the possibility of flames*

Garcia · Post by **Garcia** » Thu Oct 04, 2001 1:06 am

I don't know I like anything but the ordinary. so like let's go to the movies, let's rent a video and watch it at your place.....They are ok, but they will not make as deep an impact as doing something unordinary. That is something that you will remember.

none of my dates kisses on the first date

......lucky for us I do

[ 10-04-2001: Message edited by: Garcia ]

Aegis · Post by **Aegis** » Thu Oct 04, 2001 4:03 am

*Looks at Nippy, in his hand a long 3 inch needle is held. He preps it to make sure no air is inside, and jabs it into Nippy's arse.*

Take that you nay-sayer!

Xandax · Post by **Xandax** » Thu Oct 04, 2001 6:00 am

well any attention at all would be nice

C Elegans · Post by **C Elegans** » Thu Oct 04, 2001 6:19 am

Originally posted by Xandax:
well any attention at all would be nice

Like: "Hey, you're the ugliest guy I've seen in a long time."

Or: "Those violet bumps in your face are really fascinating. I'm a dermatologist - may I take some samples?"

Xandax · Post by **Xandax** » Thu Oct 04, 2001 9:54 pm

Well okay - that attention I already have, so...

Sailor Saturn · Post by **Sailor Saturn** » Thu Oct 04, 2001 10:08 pm

Originally posted by Random Shadow:
I seriously hate getting any sort of attention, but what would get me would be not big attentions but the little sorta indirect things--like a note left in my car after a bad day, a silly smiley-face sticker stuck on my CD player...*shrugs*

I just want to make a little note about this. Someone who doesn't like to recieve attention is very likely to forget that other people do want...nay, need attention. It is important for someone who doesn't like attention, such as Random Shadow, to remember that there are those of us who do need attention.