I did the "correct" thing and did not sleep with Aerie..and she seemd to repect me...however since then, she has sed nothing to me at all....i dont get it! I'm still doing chapter 3...is that any reason?
These things are random. Don't rush matters. Just as in reallife, pushing a date is likely to result in a boot to the butt.
To the Righteous belong the fruits of violent victory. The rest of us will have to settle for warm friends, warm lovers, and a wink from a quietly supportive universe.
Did she say anything to you after the party rested - when you chose not to sleep with her? If so, then you have reached the end of the SoA romance, it will continue in ToB - unless you stuff it up later on.