Bug with mage stronghold (pos spoiler)

[De_Priester]

I finished the graduation ceremony all of the kiddies still alive, however even after doing some subquests and the Firkraag quest I haven't seen the dude that's supposed to call me back to the stronghold. Now I've been waiting, sleeping and traveling a lot so I figure it's stuck, is there anyway to get the quest into the game? console command? (if there is a console command how do I use the console + command).

Thanks up front