I'm not too far into the game, but I'd like to know if I'm doing things in the "right" order, esp. as relates to the Jaheira romance and stuff. I'm *not* looking for spoilers per se, but a nudge in the right direction if I'm dropping the ball.
I have a wife, mortgage, three kids and a job, so I don't have enough free time to experiment too thoroughly, if you know what I mean.

Anyway, Imoen's with the CWs, I retrieved Renfeld's body, searched for Xzar's buddy in the Harper house (and they killed him! I didn't expect that), and I haven't gotten any new Harper quests, which from poking around here I kind of expected. I'm now off to the Keep to help Nalia. I was in the Dock area, but haven't gone to see the Shadow Thieves or done the locket thing yet or Jaheira's curse either. I'm NG, so I'm trying to help Nalia first. Is doing the Maer'var assassination for Bloodscalp going to hurt me in the long run, esp. as a NG PC? (I've experimented a little, to be honest. Just not a lot. Like I said, I haven't a lot of time for saving/reloading, but I do it once in a while.) Am I going about this right, so to speak? With a group averaging 8th level, is the Keep too tough yet?
And finally, what's the deal with that Romeo and Juliet style romance in the gate district? Oh, and the FREAKING LICH behind the secret door of this little ****hole that kicked my butt in 10 seconds with a Time Stop, Meteor Storm and Gate of a Pit Fiend! What the heck was *that* all about? Mr. Evil Undead Wizard is *not* your friend, apparently! <
Thanks all for your help in advance!!