It is something called [url="http://members.aol.com/intwg/antiprocess.htm"]antiprocess[/url].
To put forth a synopsis, the author has described a problem that seems to follow and hitch onto boards everywhere. Basically, it describes situations when two people just can't get into a common agreement on topics of mutual interest. (I rather like his Formal, Informal and Very Informal descriptions)
I am sure that at the very least some people here know about it, and for those that don't, I am providing a link again, [url="http://members.aol.com/intwg/antiprocess.htm"]here[/url].
I made this thread so people can share thoughts on what they thought of it... as you can see, I find it very interesting, and very informative. This is not a theory, as the author himself mentions on his web page, nor is it a widely noticed phenomenon. It is basically a name that the author gave something that he noticed from experience.