[QUOTE=Aramant]You got wordy on me, and I haven't eaten yet so my thinking parts are not so good... Did you just basically outline social binary code?[/QUOTE]
I don't think so.

I meant that kids, once they develop a sense of independence, could free themselves from the thought patterns they perceive as conformity in their parents by learning literally how to think. Consider: if your parents favored Bush, the best response of someone who wanted to be different from them would be to research, and decide where Bush might be right, or wrong, and why.
Instead, the response most kids take is to simply because an ideological inversion of their parents. So Bush stinks, but if you ask why, they don't know; he simply does. This is just as mindless a reaction as their parents, but it isn't seen by them as such, since they're trying to not conform.
Guess I'm saying, the reason this non-conformity dies out is because it's rooted only in a mindless desire to be separate, not to really arrive at any truths or sense of reality.