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A billion dollars blown just to kiss up to the right wing Christian goose-steppers.
Indeed. Just as well, the evangelical "conservative" Christian crowd (the very ones whom this program was designed to placate) has the same incidences of divorce and adultery as everyone else, too.VonDondu wrote:Conservative Republicans, including those who preach abstinence, have just as much sex, adultery, and divorce as any other segment of the population.
Right. Example: while Newt Gingrich was condemning Bill Clinton for his alleged sexual misconduct and pushing for his impeachment, he was engaged in an extra-marital affair. LOL!It's not like ANY Congressman or Congressman's child could be held up as an model for the abstinence crowd. John McCain? Newt Gingrich? George W. Bush? They are all party boys who obviously mean, "One standard for me and one standard for thee." Just imagine what a joke it would be if Bush's own daughters were appointed to be "abstinence ambassadors". The whole "family values" thing is a joke because of the way that its supporters conduct their own personal lives.
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Another thing I find amusing about this campaign is the nature of the reward and the assumption that a reward should be needed for a campaign to succeed. Stop them naive younglings from doing pagan norty stuff to one another by buying their celibacy with shinee SILVER! Ok, so they're not so much trying to buy land from native Americans with mirrors, it still strikes me as funny. It's very.. not so much conservative as something I'd solely expect from the Bush administration. It might have been a whole lot easier just to give them money.![]()
"You're not going to sleep with that guy? Great here's a hundred dollars!"
It would still be cheaper than those thousand dollar rings and I have a gut feeling teens will react better to money than silver. Silver doesn't buy you your methamphetamines.![]()
Actually I'm not being completly accurate (I should know betterfable wrote:The problem is most christians see sex as something evil, but can't explain that in a society that doesn't look upon it that way (imho).
I don't know of any survey that's been done on Christians to determine their views about sex, but given the amount of sexually based stories and activities in all media in cultures that are predominantly Christian, I don't think your point is made. Even Christian doctrine doesn't say this. What's your source for this kind of thing?
Actually the official "name" for this particular sin is lust.Source wrote: As God created the human body in his own image and likeness, and because he found everything he created to be "very good,"[58] then the human body and sex must likewise be good.
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However the Church does teach that sexuality outside of marriage is a capital sin because it violates the purpose of human sexuality to participate in the "conjugal act" before one is actually married.
This leads to the folowing statement:Source wrote: 17. Which are the seven Capital Sins?
1. Pride; 2. Covetousness; 3. Lust; 4. Auger; 5. Gluttony; 6. Envy and 7. Sloth.
Well actually we're not the first one to put that into that context. They do it for mileniaTricky wrote:Well if we're going to put sex into relation to religion, we'd better come up with a proper function or definition of religion first.
So pretend I'm not a christian, why do I have to put myself to their restrictions. If you're living with a group of people who slam their head against the wall every morning, would you slam your head against the wall just because they do it?Tricky wrote:People subject themselves to a doctrine need its laws and restrictions to apply to everyone around them as much as themselves.
Indeed the people don't know what's good for them so lets tell themTricky wrote:People want to be governed.
Actually the reason that the church takes that position, is that the bond of maraige is a sacred bond. Besides that I don't have anything against arainged marriages, if and only if the choice to continue is to the couple themself.Tricky wrote:Why is that? And why does that need want sex to be governed as well? If you look outside of religion for a moment, I think you'll find that it more or less full fills a (ecological) niche that can only be described as socio/biological. It does after all have a direct impact on conception. Think of it as population control, even in the religious sense. Betrothals are a nice example; letting the parents choose which girl has the widest hips, which boy comes from the most economically viable family, etc. That happened right here not too long ago. I wouldn't be surprised it that is still happening around here in some of the more closed communities. It's just evolution of a different kind.
I can follow that, but the choise of the having influence should remain with ourselfTricky wrote:Religion having an influence therefore wouldn't necesarily be a bad thing. One could argue we are still doing that, except now we let Vogue decide instead of our parents. Not accepting that the times are always changing and wasting a billion on a revival campaign however is 'bad'.
Very well, I'll get the big hammer :laugh:Tricky wrote:Ok someone please smash my arguments to pieces, I'm having a terrible week.
The sin, yes, but that's considered the cause of sexuality out of wedlock. My point in any case was that Christians do not as a rule see sex as evil. There are always going to be psychopathic exceptions, and I suspect quite a few of the "Old Church Fathers" who wrote so much commentary back in the first 5 or 6 centuries of the Christian Era suffered from this. But it certainly didn't affect the average Christian-on-the-ground then, and aside from the celebacy laws of the RCC, it doesn't seem to affect many, now. I can offer anecdotal evidence in the form of several Christian ladies whom I knew quite intimately before getting married, and who clearly saw sex as anything but evil.Grombag wrote:Actually I'm not being completly accurate (I should know better). Afaik the position of the Roman catholic church is the folowing (unlike last post did some seaching before posting)...Actually the official "name" for this particular sin is lust.
I have difficulty with this statement for the following reasons:Grombag wrote:
The problem is most christians see sex before marraige as a sin, but can't explain that in a society that doesn't look upon it that way (imho).