[/QUOTE]So i am forgiven right?
The Why thread of SYM
[QUOTE=winter rose]Well Im sorry about what happened. But it takes a lot to forgive people. I know that. I hope it all works out. [/QUOTE]
So i am forgiven right?
[/QUOTE]So i am forgiven right?
For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun? - Khalil Gibran
"We shall fight on the beaches. We shall fight on the landing grounds. We shall fight in the fields, and in the streets, we shall fight in the hills. We shall never surrender!" - Winston Churchill
"We shall fight on the beaches. We shall fight on the landing grounds. We shall fight in the fields, and in the streets, we shall fight in the hills. We shall never surrender!" - Winston Churchill
[QUOTE=Magrus]Did you screw up to? [/QUOTE]
Yeah in a little way. She forgave me. About time as well. It was her fault
[/QUOTE]Yeah in a little way. She forgave me. About time as well. It was her fault
For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun? - Khalil Gibran
"We shall fight on the beaches. We shall fight on the landing grounds. We shall fight in the fields, and in the streets, we shall fight in the hills. We shall never surrender!" - Winston Churchill
"We shall fight on the beaches. We shall fight on the landing grounds. We shall fight in the fields, and in the streets, we shall fight in the hills. We shall never surrender!" - Winston Churchill
[QUOTE=CM]Yeah in a little way. She forgave me. About time as well. It was her fault [/QUOTE]
Ahhh...yeah no, I screwed up. And it was my fault. No going around that one. I'm getting scared though, there's been no explosion. I'm waiting for her to just up and get me in my sleep.
[/QUOTE]Ahhh...yeah no, I screwed up. And it was my fault. No going around that one. I'm getting scared though, there's been no explosion. I'm waiting for her to just up and get me in my sleep.
"You can do whatever you want to me."
"Oh, so I can crate you and hide you in the warehouse at the end of Raiders?"
"So funny, kiss me funny boy!" / *Sprays mace* " I know, I know, bad for the ozone"
"Oh, so I can crate you and hide you in the warehouse at the end of Raiders?"
"So funny, kiss me funny boy!" / *Sprays mace* " I know, I know, bad for the ozone"
[QUOTE=jopperm2]I'd be really careful. There have been a rash of dismemberments lately if you catch my drift.[/QUOTE]
I love my member, hopefully she does too...but not in the creepy "you look pretty on my wall" love. That's bad love.
I love my member, hopefully she does too...but not in the creepy "you look pretty on my wall" love. That's bad love.
"You can do whatever you want to me."
"Oh, so I can crate you and hide you in the warehouse at the end of Raiders?"
"So funny, kiss me funny boy!" / *Sprays mace* " I know, I know, bad for the ozone"
"Oh, so I can crate you and hide you in the warehouse at the end of Raiders?"
"So funny, kiss me funny boy!" / *Sprays mace* " I know, I know, bad for the ozone"
[QUOTE=Magrus]I love my member, hopefully she does too...but not in the creepy "you look pretty on my wall" love. That's bad love. [/QUOTE]
That's scary obsession, rather than love, I think. Things have a way of fixing themselves, though, Mag. You'll find out soon enough. We all make mistakes and she has to know that. She's just hurt is all. I ****ed up big time about a month ago, and though it took a little work and luck, things worked out. For now at least. Who knows what the future will bring, bad or good, right?
[/QUOTE]That's scary obsession, rather than love, I think. Things have a way of fixing themselves, though, Mag. You'll find out soon enough. We all make mistakes and she has to know that. She's just hurt is all. I ****ed up big time about a month ago, and though it took a little work and luck, things worked out. For now at least. Who knows what the future will bring, bad or good, right?
Any man who asks for greater authority does not deserve to have it.
--Tercero Xavier Harkonnen, to the Salusan Militia
The Council of Four Perverts: (1) Magrus (2) Darth Zenemij (3) Erenor (4) Luis Antonio
--Tercero Xavier Harkonnen, to the Salusan Militia
The Council of Four Perverts: (1) Magrus (2) Darth Zenemij (3) Erenor (4) Luis Antonio
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Darth Zenemij
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O.k Magrus, I hope you dom't mind me asking but, who is that girl in your'e avatar?
I decend from grace in arms of undertow...
[QUOTE=Magrus]I think you and I would end up in the hospital trying to drink together... Oh its a shame you live so far away man. We could have so much fun! Well... maybe. We might end up in jail after we get out of the hospital.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Magrus]I think you and I would end up in the hospital trying to drink together...
Oh its a shame you live so far away man. We could have so much fun! Well... maybe. We might end up in jail after we get out of the hospital.[/QUOTE]-
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UH oh, he asked THE question! You're dead man, better go into hiding pronto! Hehe.. J/K He has been asked before. I'll let him explain though.
I have a why question. WHY IS IT SO DEAD IN HERE TODAY???
I have a why question. WHY IS IT SO DEAD IN HERE TODAY???
"Those who desire to give up freedom in order to gain security,
will not have, nor do they deserve, either one."
Thomas Jefferson
will not have, nor do they deserve, either one."
Thomas Jefferson
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Darth Zenemij
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... The only excuse i can think of would be "Parents Weekend"!!! I hate it though.
I decend from grace in arms of undertow...
[QUOTE=Magrus]I think you and I would end up in the hospital trying to drink together... Oh its a shame you live so far away man. We could have so much fun! Well... maybe. We might end up in jail after we get out of the hospital.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Magrus]I think you and I would end up in the hospital trying to drink together...
Oh its a shame you live so far away man. We could have so much fun! Well... maybe. We might end up in jail after we get out of the hospital.[/QUOTE]-
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WHY is it so hard to regain trust?
and i know about the thing "you can't know when the other one is lying if she/he has lied to you and then confessed it and you start wondering has she/he lied to you before and just afraid of telling you even if she has promised to tell it."
that one just sucks the joy of life out of me. if i only could regain my 100%trust for her i might die because one can't be truly happy. isn't that against human nature or smth?
and i know about the thing "you can't know when the other one is lying if she/he has lied to you and then confessed it and you start wondering has she/he lied to you before and just afraid of telling you even if she has promised to tell it."
that one just sucks the joy of life out of me. if i only could regain my 100%trust for her i might die because one can't be truly happy. isn't that against human nature or smth?
Simple because humans are paranoid. They make illogical jumps from one area to another. Because they feel they have been lied to now they could have been lied to before. Secondly the loss of trust is an ego thing. The person i liked or loved betrayed me so why won't she do it again.
Nah it isn't. But no offense intended Locke, from what i have seen European society is very individualistic. There is too little emphasis placed on the joint relationship. That may lead to the fact that there are so many cases of not enough trust.
Nah it isn't. But no offense intended Locke, from what i have seen European society is very individualistic. There is too little emphasis placed on the joint relationship. That may lead to the fact that there are so many cases of not enough trust.
For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun? - Khalil Gibran
"We shall fight on the beaches. We shall fight on the landing grounds. We shall fight in the fields, and in the streets, we shall fight in the hills. We shall never surrender!" - Winston Churchill
"We shall fight on the beaches. We shall fight on the landing grounds. We shall fight in the fields, and in the streets, we shall fight in the hills. We shall never surrender!" - Winston Churchill
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[QUOTE=CM]Simple because humans are paranoid. They make illogical jumps from one area to another. Because they feel they have been lied to now they could have been lied to before. Secondly the loss of trust is an ego thing. The person i liked or loved betrayed me so why won't she do it again.
Nah it isn't. But no offense intended Locke, from what i have seen European society is very individualistic. There is too little emphasis placed on the joint relationship. That may lead to the fact that there are so many cases of not enough trust.[/QUOTE]
i still have that childish naive "trust blindly until proven otherwise" thing. gah maybe the words i need to hear are "get over it and get a life" or smth like that
Nah it isn't. But no offense intended Locke, from what i have seen European society is very individualistic. There is too little emphasis placed on the joint relationship. That may lead to the fact that there are so many cases of not enough trust.[/QUOTE]
i still have that childish naive "trust blindly until proven otherwise" thing. gah maybe the words i need to hear are "get over it and get a life" or smth like that
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[QUOTE=Grimar]Get over it and get a life
there you go [/QUOTE]
If only things were that simple...
there you go
[/QUOTE]If only things were that simple...
I decend from grace in arms of undertow...
[QUOTE=Magrus]I think you and I would end up in the hospital trying to drink together... Oh its a shame you live so far away man. We could have so much fun! Well... maybe. We might end up in jail after we get out of the hospital.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Magrus]I think you and I would end up in the hospital trying to drink together...
Oh its a shame you live so far away man. We could have so much fun! Well... maybe. We might end up in jail after we get out of the hospital.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=Darth Zenemij]O.k Magrus, I hope you dom't mind me asking but, who is that girl in your'e avatar?[/QUOTE]
It's my dead ex-girlfriend Cassie, and no, I don't mind.
It's my dead ex-girlfriend Cassie, and no, I don't mind.
"You can do whatever you want to me."
"Oh, so I can crate you and hide you in the warehouse at the end of Raiders?"
"So funny, kiss me funny boy!" / *Sprays mace* " I know, I know, bad for the ozone"
"Oh, so I can crate you and hide you in the warehouse at the end of Raiders?"
"So funny, kiss me funny boy!" / *Sprays mace* " I know, I know, bad for the ozone"
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[QUOTE=Magrus]It's my dead ex-girlfriend Cassie, and no, I don't mind. [/QUOTE]
woa! hold on! is that seriusly you dead ex-girlfriend??
[/QUOTE]woa! hold on! is that seriusly you dead ex-girlfriend??
I once had a little teaparty, this afternoon at three, twas was very small, three guests in all; I, myself, and me. myself ate up the sandwhiches, while i drank up the tea. twas also i that ate the pie,and passed the cake to me
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Darth Zenemij
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[QUOTE=Magrus]It's my dead ex-girlfriend Cassie, and no, I don't mind. [/QUOTE]
odd, that is what my ex was called throught school, that is strange.
[/QUOTE]odd, that is what my ex was called throught school, that is strange.
I decend from grace in arms of undertow...
[QUOTE=Magrus]I think you and I would end up in the hospital trying to drink together... Oh its a shame you live so far away man. We could have so much fun! Well... maybe. We might end up in jail after we get out of the hospital.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Magrus]I think you and I would end up in the hospital trying to drink together...
Oh its a shame you live so far away man. We could have so much fun! Well... maybe. We might end up in jail after we get out of the hospital.[/QUOTE]-
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Ummm.... It might be a little more comfortable if people talked about Magrus' current problems.
(This is the "Why" thread though, so why not talk about anything I suppose...)
Re: WR- When I said that each partner should accept half the blame, it is because two people were involved in the relationship and both could have done things differently. It absolutely doesn't mean that either person has an obligation to continue the relationship- if one person can't trust/forgive the other then that it probably won't work out. However, at this point, assigning blame almost certainly won't help anyone either. Moving forward is what is most important in my mind.
(This is the "Why" thread though, so why not talk about anything I suppose...)
Re: WR- When I said that each partner should accept half the blame, it is because two people were involved in the relationship and both could have done things differently. It absolutely doesn't mean that either person has an obligation to continue the relationship- if one person can't trust/forgive the other then that it probably won't work out. However, at this point, assigning blame almost certainly won't help anyone either. Moving forward is what is most important in my mind.
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