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[QUOTE=winter rose]Well Im sorry about what happened. But it takes a lot to forgive people. I know that. I hope it all works out. [/QUOTE]

So i am forgiven right?

[QUOTE=CM]So i am forgiven right? [/QUOTE]

Did you screw up to?

[QUOTE=Magrus]Did you screw up to? [/QUOTE]

Yeah in a little way. She forgave me. About time as well. It was her fault

[QUOTE=CM]Yeah in a little way. She forgave me. About time as well. It was her fault [/QUOTE]

Ahhh...yeah no, I screwed up. And it was my fault. No going around that one. I'm getting scared though, there's been no explosion. I'm waiting for her to just up and get me in my sleep.

I'd be really careful. There have been a rash of dismemberments lately if you catch my drift.

[QUOTE=jopperm2]I'd be really careful. There have been a rash of dismemberments lately if you catch my drift.[/QUOTE]

I love my member, hopefully she does too...but not in the creepy "you look pretty on my wall" love. That's bad love.

[QUOTE=Magrus]I love my member, hopefully she does too...but not in the creepy "you look pretty on my wall" love. That's bad love. [/QUOTE]

That's scary obsession, rather than love, I think. Things have a way of fixing themselves, though, Mag. You'll find out soon enough. We all make mistakes and she has to know that. She's just hurt is all. I ****ed up big time about a month ago, and though it took a little work and luck, things worked out. For now at least. Who knows what the future will bring, bad or good, right?

O.k Magrus, I hope you dom't mind me asking but, who is that girl in your'e avatar?

UH oh, he asked THE question! You're dead man, better go into hiding pronto! Hehe.. J/K He has been asked before. I'll let him explain though.

I have a why question. WHY IS IT SO DEAD IN HERE TODAY???

... The only excuse i can think of would be "Parents Weekend"!!! I hate it though.

WHY is it so hard to regain trust?

and i know about the thing "you can't know when the other one is lying if she/he has lied to you and then confessed it and you start wondering has she/he lied to you before and just afraid of telling you even if she has promised to tell it."

that one just sucks the joy of life out of me. if i only could regain my 100%trust for her i might die because one can't be truly happy. isn't that against human nature or smth?

Simple because humans are paranoid. They make illogical jumps from one area to another. Because they feel they have been lied to now they could have been lied to before. Secondly the loss of trust is an ego thing. The person i liked or loved betrayed me so why won't she do it again.

Nah it isn't. But no offense intended Locke, from what i have seen European society is very individualistic. There is too little emphasis placed on the joint relationship. That may lead to the fact that there are so many cases of not enough trust.

[QUOTE=CM]Simple because humans are paranoid. They make illogical jumps from one area to another. Because they feel they have been lied to now they could have been lied to before. Secondly the loss of trust is an ego thing. The person i liked or loved betrayed me so why won't she do it again.

Nah it isn't. But no offense intended Locke, from what i have seen European society is very individualistic. There is too little emphasis placed on the joint relationship. That may lead to the fact that there are so many cases of not enough trust.[/QUOTE]

i still have that childish naive "trust blindly until proven otherwise" thing. gah maybe the words i need to hear are "get over it and get a life" or smth like that

Get over it and get a life
there you go

[QUOTE=Grimar]Get over it and get a life
there you go [/QUOTE]
If only things were that simple...

[QUOTE=Darth Zenemij]O.k Magrus, I hope you dom't mind me asking but, who is that girl in your'e avatar?[/QUOTE]

It's my dead ex-girlfriend Cassie, and no, I don't mind.

[QUOTE=Magrus]It's my dead ex-girlfriend Cassie, and no, I don't mind. [/QUOTE]

woa! hold on! is that seriusly you dead ex-girlfriend??

[QUOTE=Magrus]It's my dead ex-girlfriend Cassie, and no, I don't mind. [/QUOTE]
odd, that is what my ex was called throught school, that is strange.

yes grim, it is >< i alrdy put my foot in that one. still choking.

Ummm.... It might be a little more comfortable if people talked about Magrus' current problems.

(This is the "Why" thread though, so why not talk about anything I suppose...)

Re: WR- When I said that each partner should accept half the blame, it is because two people were involved in the relationship and both could have done things differently. It absolutely doesn't mean that either person has an obligation to continue the relationship- if one person can't trust/forgive the other then that it probably won't work out. However, at this point, assigning blame almost certainly won't help anyone either. Moving forward is what is most important in my mind.