I'm stuck on Lovetalk 54 (jaheira) ? I'm in chapter 3 should I push on to chapter 5 I hear all romances die in this chapter?
or if you go to this forum it says love talk number 33 I believe I've already killed dermin (from my encounter he tried to kill me) but nothing else is happening what do I do? I've gone to the docks and waited there I've gone to de'arnises hold and other areas..I've trecked back and forth but no dialogue (and I mean 6 days or more of trecking without rest to try to get something) has this ruined the dialogue?
The Jaheira romance hanging at Lovetalk 54 is a pretty infamous bug. Some fans made a patch that fixed the romance, and it was included in the official patch for ToB, so I'm guessing you don't have it.
Anyways, you might want to try setting the lovetalk value to 57 (since I think 56 also has a ton of problems) or so using CLUA or Shadowkeeper. Do a forum search for "Jaheira Romance", as there's a ton of threads that will explain what to do when it hangs around the point you're at.
Also, romance dialogues are triggered in REAL TIME, not game time, so sleeping a lot won't always help (though sleeping outdoors is a trigger for some of Jaheira's dialogue). You'd need to set the value of JaheiraRomance to 1, since that's the timer. If you're still getting nothing, then your romance is probably bugged.
If nothing we do matters, then all that matters is what we do.
I think in the vanilla game, the romance stops in Chapters 4 and 5, and restarts in Chapter 6. You have to finish the romance in Chapter 6 though, since once you move on to Chapter 7, its done.
If nothing we do matters, then all that matters is what we do.