Anyone have a good PvP RDD build? (spoiler, I think)

[BuildJunkie]

Im on the antiworld server for PvP, and Im looking for a RDD/Bard/(anything) build. The idea is to have high perform for bard song and curse song, maybe taunt. I prefer halfing but anything is fine. Dexer..Str based, doesn't matter.
Just would like an ok ab. I wanna keep spell buffing to a minimum, besides True Seeing. Also I hate getting knocked down so I like to have discipline. A few things about the server..(I can tweaks to the build if need be) Dev Crit has been disabled in the server, spells or feats that cause instant death, knock down, stun, or daze is ilegal. I suck at building..so please if you would give me the general way to level him. Like when to take points in a certain skill, what feats you recomend and when to take them, and also starting stats and when to add a point to a stat. Again, I suck at building and I'm a noob to online, so please no abbreviations. Thanks a bunch.