Originally posted by Zartuul:
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Personally I think that men are more predictable then women ....
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Well, i have some parable for it, i guess, and our most beautiful Ladies might correct me, if i'm wrong
It is, of course, pale reflection of reality, even of one edge of it.
I see a women as a melody, let's say good old jazz
You may know the tune, if you recognize it you may even be admitted to try to play.
It is always the same theme profound, even if you cannot recognize it. There are improvisation, the melody changes with every tact, and you never know for sure what next passage might be. You still may guess and often right, though. The melody may change with time and become quite different, it might happen you cannot recognize familiar one after the years, but the main theme, initial tune, the spirit is still here. It might become so complex you might never find the essential part of it, after all it's rare you're listening from the beginnings, aren't you? Well, then no fate, is it? Nevertheless it never goes too far, it's always the same thing, it only might sound different. Women are more more whole inside even if they do not admit or even recognize it themselves.
Well, now about your role, dear player. If you believe you recognize the tune or, at least, make an illusion you might, you may be admitted to try. What are you expected, the only thing? Well, i guess you're expected to cause those turns and passages, to enrich the melody, to winkle out something of that true beauty hiding in the depth
You should be the player and the listener at once. You are even allowed make mistakes – within reason and while there is a hope there might be some sense of you.
Of course, there always might be a chance somebody do better ...
Do not go too far from the main tune, though. Also do not become too obvious. Do not repeat passages you've discovered too often, even if they sound very nice first time, though it might be worth to repeat sometimes to recall how it has been before, even better when not expected - within reason again
Do not make music boring and keep the theme, in one word. Let it ring.
It hardly is possible without love of such or another kind (and it ever might do nothing with sex altogether). Of course, clever and cold manipulators exist, but you're in trouble if you are suspected to be one. As in music there are easy melodies and hard ones, whole sounding and internally controversial, virtuosos without heart and dilettantes with heart full of love, it's life. The rules remains, anyway.
It's obvious the language is too poor to describe women, as well as it is too poor to describe love. (Ancient Greek had five or six terms for different kinds of love, BTW, or so i'm told. Have never known if they cared about women so much, though). The music may do. It itself can hardly been explained, or there probably would be no necessity for it. I cannot write music, sorry
Begging pardon for clumsy English, if possible.
Hope, what i'm trying to say might be at least guessed
L.
[ 05-09-2001: Message edited by: Loredweller ]
