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Reviving this for another question.

How is it you girls have a tendency to throw out "I love you" at just the right time to totally stop the train of thought a guy has when he's pissed at you? When I'm good and pissed at someone and they say something that totally changes that into a warm fuzzy feeling I feel gipped. :mad:
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first of all let me introduce my question:what's gipped? :confused:

and secondly it's a gift that women get.. i mean you can be mad as hell at one minute, after 12words you calm down-smile-joke about it-hug-kiss-sex and you completely forget that in the end she didn't even answer the question. :D

btw, have you been able to determine if your "girlfriend" has a crush on you/is in love with you?
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[QUOTE=Locke Da'averan]first of all let me introduce my question:what's gipped? :confused:

and secondly it's a gift that women get.. i mean you can be mad as hell at one minute, after 12words you calm down-smile-joke about it-hug-kiss-sex and you completely forget that in the end she didn't even answer the question. :D

btw, have you been able to determine if your "girlfriend" has a crush on you/is in love with you?[/QUOTE]

Umm, sort of means like you got screwed out of something. Say if you were supposed to get money out of a deal you made, but the deal fell through and you never got your money.

Should just spank her till I get my answer I say. :p

Yes I have, I actually got the whole "I love you" thing from her monday I think it was? :confused: Very odd situation still to deal with and we're arguing a lot because of how we feel for each other and the situation contradicting those emotions unfortunately. Very frustrating.
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[QUOTE=Magrus]Umm, sort of means like you got screwed out of something. Say if you were supposed to get money out of a deal you made, but the deal fell through and you never got your money.

Should just spank her till I get my answer I say. :p

Yes I have, I actually got the whole "I love you" thing from her monday I think it was? :confused: Very odd situation still to deal with and we're arguing a lot because of how we feel for each other and the situation contradicting those emotions unfortunately. Very frustrating.[/QUOTE]

damn.. that's gotta be tough.. i'm having trouble with just one girl.. so if you don't mind me asking what are your feelings for her? and what about your "toy"?
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[QUOTE=Locke Da'averan]damn.. that's gotta be tough.. i'm having trouble with just one girl.. so if you don't mind me asking what are your feelings for her? and what about your "toy"?[/QUOTE]

Oh, I thought you meant my toy before. I spent my birthday out with my one female friend, her boyfriend and some other friends. I got that all cleared up with my friend now. The good news is her boyfriend thinks I'm great, so he doesn't mind the fact she wants to spend just as much time with me as him just hanging out. :)
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[QUOTE=Magrus]Oh, I thought you meant my toy before. I spent my birthday out with my one female friend, her boyfriend and some other friends. I got that all cleared up with my friend now. The good news is her boyfriend thinks I'm great, so he doesn't mind the fact she wants to spend just as much time with me as him just hanging out. :) [/QUOTE]

well that's good.. i might have a problem if my gf wanted to spend that much time with some other male, but it's good he doesn't see it as a problem..

oh, i thought that you were gonna get ripped to shreds by your toy and your friends bf.. :p thankfully that's not the case..

hope you two clear things up quickly and for good..
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O.k,Why is it that Women usually have there "best friend" to check out someone who they just met?I
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[QUOTE=Magrus]I think you and I would end up in the hospital trying to drink together... :o Oh its a shame you live so far away man. We could have so much fun! Well... maybe. We might end up in jail after we get out of the hospital.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Darth Zenemij]O.k,Why is it that Women usually have there "best friend" to check out someone who they just met?I[/QUOTE]Because they value those people's evaluations the most, rather than say.... Yourself or your friend.
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So, I ended up doing something wretched to my girlfriend on friday. I made a fool of myself in a very bad way on April Fool's day without meaning to. :(

How is it you prove to someone you feel a certain way for them, after screwing up and taking an action that displays the complete opposite of that and gives them no reason to believe you?
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[QUOTE=Magrus]So, I ended up doing something wretched to my girlfriend on friday. I made a fool of myself in a very bad way on April Fool's day without meaning to. :(

How is it you prove to someone you feel a certain way for them, after screwing up and taking an action that displays the complete opposite of that and gives them no reason to believe you?[/QUOTE]Simple; keep doing really nice things to her until she forgives you :)
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[QUOTE=oozae]Simple; keep doing really nice things to her until she forgives you :) [/QUOTE]

Thanks oozit. ;) Just don't know if that will cut it.
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[QUOTE=Magrus]Thanks oozit. ;) Just don't know if that will cut it.[/QUOTE]Have a chat with her and explain why you did what you did(for good alibis, call 9570 4354 :D ) and then ask if there is some way of making it up to her.
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[QUOTE=oozae]Have a chat with her and explain why you did what you did(for good alibis, call 9570 4354 :D ) and then ask if there is some way of making it up to her.[/QUOTE]

Yeah, I get the "I don't know" response in regards to that. She hasn't made her mind up on that whole issue of how to feel or what to do yet really I don't think. I think I got points for being honest and up front right away on my screw up though. Thats always good. :rolleyes:
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[QUOTE=Magrus]Yeah, I get the "I don't know" response in regards to that. She hasn't made her mind up on that whole issue of how to feel or what to do yet really I don't think. I think I got points for being honest and up front right away on my screw up though. Thats always good. :rolleyes: [/QUOTE]So what did you actually do?
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[QUOTE=Darth Zenemij]O.k,Why is it that Women usually have there "best friend" to check out someone who they just met?I[/QUOTE]

It's because most women are inherently insecure and need another persons advice. it just so happened that my womens best friend at the time we got together was also one of my close friends but then again so was Sarah so all that didn't really matter all that much, in fact we were advised not to get together as we're both crazy!
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How come automated telephone systems regularly say, 'your call is important to us, please hold'?? If it was that important shouldn't they have more people to answer the calls immediately?! I feel unloved by these companies!
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[QUOTE=Locke Da'averan]
and secondly it's a gift that women get.. i mean you can be mad as hell at one minute, after 12words you calm down-smile-joke about it-hug-kiss-sex and you completely forget that in the end she didn't even answer the question. :D
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has your god answered CM? 'cause i really want to know that too. :p

btw, magrus, do you mind telling what you did, if not in public atleast on PM unless it's too personal.. i'm dying out of curiousity. i thought you were the best there is.
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[QUOTE=Magrus]So, I ended up doing something wretched to my girlfriend on friday. I made a fool of myself in a very bad way on April Fool's day without meaning to. :(

How is it you prove to someone you feel a certain way for them, after screwing up and taking an action that displays the complete opposite of that and gives them no reason to believe you?[/QUOTE]

Time, time and more time- just let it pass and things will calm down. Like the time I asked my then gf if she was gaining weight... :eek: yikes!

Ummm... I'm interested in what happened too, if you don't mind sharing.

(why is it that when you leave something unsaid or inspecific, people always want to know about it even more?)
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so they know what NOT to do. and it might comfort others when someone is feeling low/doing bad etc. about themselves.

i'm sorry about the incident magrus. i'm doing fine with my gf atm, i just hope that it'll stay that way
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