The Why thread of SYM

Erenor · Post by **Erenor** » Mon Jun 27, 2005 2:40 pm

We discussed that yesterday. Yes, I'm ashamed, but I also work and have school almost every day, which sucks the big one, and I didn't start on SYM until summer. Brynn told me to look it up, I think. The shame of it all.

Magrus · Post by **Magrus** » Mon Jun 27, 2005 2:41 pm

Keep in mind he was out of the country and drunk the two weeks we were running those RPG's here on the board. No posting access for him while we went CRAZY with those games with our posts.

Darth Zenemij · Post by **Darth Zenemij** » Mon Jun 27, 2005 2:47 pm

I just noticed that.

Erenor · Post by **Erenor** » Mon Jun 27, 2005 2:48 pm

Yes, typing while being drunk or having sex is really, really hard, guys. Gotta cut a guy a little slack. Some things are just too hard to multitask. I think I'd get slapped pretty hard for attempting to type whilst engaging anything with a girl.

Magrus · Post by **Magrus** » Mon Jun 27, 2005 2:50 pm

I type drunk all the time. It's like an eternal struggle with control of your hands.

Macleod1701 · Post by **Macleod1701** » Thu Jun 30, 2005 8:47 am

I'm a guy and I can multi-task perfectly well, sober and drunk, and as for having sex while drunk, that's not hard at all, (apart from the respective part of anatomy that requires to be) it's getting me to stop while drunk that's the hard part

The missus refuses to 'get jiggy' when I'm drunk as it strangely just enhances my staying power. Now if someone can explain why that happens I'll be very impressed.

Magrus · Post by **Magrus** » Thu Jun 30, 2005 8:56 am

The missus refuses to 'get jiggy' when I'm drunk as it strangely just enhances my staying power. Now if someone can explain why that happens I'll be very impressed.

*laughs* Drunken sex is great, but I have that problem too, sober is bad enough some of my girlfriends have said. If they're drunk as well, we're fine though.

I believe it has something to do with a desensitization. You go a bit more numb all over than normal, reducing the "feeling" and allowing you to take more before "popping" so to speak.

C Elegans · Post by **C Elegans** » Thu Jun 30, 2005 9:25 am

[QUOTE=Macleod1701]The missus refuses to 'get jiggy' when I'm drunk as it strangely just enhances my staying power. Now if someone can explain why that happens I'll be very impressed.[/QUOTE]

It's the same for most men and it gets worse the more you drink. Alcohol numbs the somatosensory system, so the body experience a physical sensation is experienced as less intense.

Darth Zenemij · Post by **Darth Zenemij** » Thu Jun 30, 2005 9:28 am

So basicly, it takes away from the Plesure, in a way.

C Elegans · Post by **C Elegans** » Thu Jun 30, 2005 9:43 am

[QUOTE=Darth Zenemij]So basicly, it takes away from the Plesure, in a way.[/QUOTE]

Yes, but if you are very drunk you probably don't notice much since you are in a confused state. Most men notice they have to work much harder to reach orgasm, though.

Darth Zenemij · Post by **Darth Zenemij** » Thu Jun 30, 2005 9:46 am

Over working your self to reach an orgasm can lead to bad things, if your'e a "sex freak". I have a question, again its not really a why question, What does <3 mean?

Magrus · Post by **Magrus** » Thu Jun 30, 2005 9:49 am

Turn " <3 " 90 degrees counter clockwise, and it looks like a heart.

Darth Zenemij · Post by **Darth Zenemij** » Thu Jun 30, 2005 9:51 am

I would have never figured that out! I'm not to big at internet talk.

C Elegans · Post by **C Elegans** » Thu Jun 30, 2005 9:53 am

[QUOTE=Darth Zenemij]Over working your self to reach an orgasm can lead to bad things, if you a "sex freak".[/QUOTE]

All involved may get quite sore. A friend of mine once damaged his frenulum so that the glans got partly detached. Not so funny, very painful and took a long time to heal.

Personally I never have sex with drunk guys, they smell horrible (alcohol in your breath smells really awful) and they don't realise how boring they are.

Darth Zenemij · Post by **Darth Zenemij** » Thu Jun 30, 2005 9:58 am

I have only had drunken sex like once or twice, most of the times I am sober. I know how horrible the alchohal smell is, and I wouldn't want to see my girl uncomfortable. Something similar to what happened to your friend is also why I'm usually sober, I don't want things to happen to me that could possibly damage me for alost the rest of my life.

Magrus · Post by **Magrus** » Thu Jun 30, 2005 10:10 am

Well there's a difference between "drunk" and "so plastered I'm oblivious". If I'm sober, I wouldn't want someone who's drunk all over me. If I have a girlfriend and we decide to have a few drinks with a dinner I made, I'm not going to shove her away though you know? I can't think of a single time I've been with a girl where the both of us were drunk that I was NOT dating her already. We knew each other well enough to know boundaries, limits, and how to act with each other.

C Elegans · Post by **C Elegans** » Thu Jun 30, 2005 10:20 am

If a couple who already have a sexual relationship are having a few drinks at a party and then have sex, I don't think its a problem. However, also a moderate amount of alcohol may lower the quality of sex.
The big problems arise if one or both are so drunk so it alters their perception of reality and affect their judgement in a way so they do things they may not have done otherwise, or they are confused and not sure of what they are actually want and are actually doing.

To me personally it's different thought, since I'm always sober, I don't drink alcohol at all.

Magrus · Post by **Magrus** » Thu Jun 30, 2005 10:28 am

The big problems arise if one or both are so drunk so it alters their perception of reality and affect their judgement in a way so they do things they may not have done otherwise, or they are confused and not sure of what they are actually want and are actually doing.

*nods* I'm very big on the thing where I won't try anything new unless it's agreed upon while sober. I view convincing someone of doing something you want while they are drunk as manipulation, plain and simple. It's one of the reasons I won't do anything with a drunk girl unless I'm already dating her. If I'm dating the girl, we would end up together that night anyways, sober or not.

Not to mention, I make sure we work out boundaries within the first week or so of dating. In all the different aspects of the relationship, including the bedroom. Things may change later on, but until it comes up in a discussion, while sober, we don't act outside those things. Otherwise, someone may end up hurt, or feeling used or manipulated.

Fiona · Post by **Fiona** » Thu Jun 30, 2005 6:06 pm

[QUOTE=Darth Zenemij]So basicly, it takes away from the Plesure, in a way.[/QUOTE]
Whose pleasure ?

Magrus · Post by **Magrus** » Thu Jun 30, 2005 6:13 pm

[QUOTE=Fiona]Whose pleasure ?[/QUOTE]

*coughs* Depends on whose drunk, and who knows what they're doing.

I've got a question, Bi girls adore me. I've been trying to figure out "why". I suppose the fact the last few girls I've dated have commented on loving how "domesticated" I am may have something to do with it. The whole cooking, cleaning, loving babies, etc. That and the being sensative and listening and enjoying conversation too.

Why does that seem special to so many girls though? I don't get it.